Jim, it's great that you have taken a fellow club member under your wing to help him understand, rather than just " do it this way". The larger situation is that of the knowledgeable builders, there aren't a lot that are able and willing to put in the time and effort to guide and explain all the ins n outs of WHY we do the work. And truth be told, very few modelers really want to become eng. builders. But they DO want solid advice. And if they can get that from someone with no monetary axe to gring, it's a little easier to believe and trust. While they may never modify an eng., if they have a better understanding of what's in there and why, they will be a much better "field mechanic", able to help themselves and others.
There are many ways of "giving back" to the hobby, and some of us have to do what we can in our own way. I believe that people who are interested in guiding others with understanding, can reach out to receptive ears the best through these great forums. I'm sure you Jim, as well as me and others, receive many PMs and Emails from Australia, Canada, The US, Africa wanting our advise and opinions. And while we are ALL learning everyday, I'm sure some of that help has been passed along and that THAT, is a wonderful way of giving back. There are pitfalls though, when you try to explain an answer in detail, on the forums. Some of the experienced guys see it as you going on and on, "writing a novel", stating the "obvious". If it was only the experienced, knowledgeable guys reading the forums, there would be no need for them. I for one, have been building and modifying automotive machinery, and trying to explain the WHYs to the young guys for 50 years. I am blessed that my son has a passionate interest in the same thing.
The best advise I can offer to the average engine buyer, who doesn't necessarily know what to look for ( and shouldn't have to ), is to buy a quality motor from one of the hobby's motor "icons". Guys that have been doing it very well forever, that have been the developers of the processes, and are still producing great results. Matthew @ M&D, Carlo @ CC Racing, Mitch @ Quick Draw.