Really all I can offer is the personal observation that RCMK has what appears to be at times enough inconsistencies in quality control of Min/Max specs that some rods have very little side to side rock while others seem a tad loose like you find in an engine after some hours of hard running.
In a conversation with Jim Allen on JRCBD, he stated to me in taking apart RCMK cranks he has noted rods big end diameters vary as much as .0008" which would account for the side rock you very well may be experiencing ?
Now as for the hole of bearing journal not being centered within forging, that is pretty typical and not something I would worry about.
I can tell you of all the RCMK's I personally race, Dozens more done for others have only heard and seen one failure of the big end of rod. It was on one of my own that had noted was really tight having free rotation but minimal side rock.
It had turned bottom end of rod Blue/Purple after some testing in the 19K+ rpm range.
Never came apart but was scrapped after finding it.
Right now don't have any engines opened up on the bench but will say in a rough guess that if you MAKE SURE big end is not sliding back and forth while side rocking rod as drawn .... .010" - .030" lateral movement at rods small end is pretty typical even in Zenoahs too.
You do need to understand that the tighter fit becomes on either end of rod, greater become the bearing loads if any misalignment of bore not being a perfect 90* to cranks C/L ... Tilting of piston within bore etc.
While tighter bearing tolerances having the reciprocating parts more held in perfect alignment, greater becomes precision the entire engine must be built to keeping it all straight square and true
** Not defending RCMK's manufacturing discrepancies that we all know exist, but simply stating you may very well be picking apart issues that are not really an issue in the long run.
What I would do is document what you feel is wrong, share that with Mr.Park at RCMK. If he does nothing don't sweat it and run the snot out of the engine.
If it does fail down the road you have a paper trail of your concerns that gives you creditability in having RCMK make it right.
Being one who has been in the trenchs dealing with RCMK's teething pains over this past 2 years, can say RCMK as supported there product 110% never charging me a dime for faulty parts. Every time Mr.Park has shipped parts from Korea on his dime
and said if you need support we are here !!
What more can I say