Hi Goesman, and welcome aboard this fine forum!
Sorry to hear about your crash & burns. Boating is a bit easier, as long as you avoid joining the fishes at the bottom of the pond.
About placing the engine, you will get as many answers as there is boaters here.
A main rule is to place the center of the engine at Center of Gravity. This is in most cases about 30 - 35 % from the aft stern.
But still. A light and fast engine could be placed more forward, as a heavy and slow engine should be placed more towards the back. (In my opinion that is).
Remember the risk of overplaning, which makes the front of the boat starts dipping because of too much forward weight. You can never correct this with trimtabs or anything else. So if you are in doubt, you should place the engine a bit more towards the aft.
By doing that, you can save the day by trimming the boat aft upwards with a couple of trim tabs.
This really is no science, unless you want to compete against the fastest in this game.
But why not bring a pic of your boat?
I would like to see it!
Merry Christmas!
Woodie.